Sunday, March 9, 2014

why do you talk so much about sex??!

A girlfriend asked me why I'm so open about talking about sex.

The short answer? Because I believe it is a thoughtful and specially designed marriage gift from God and this very exclusive and intimate present strengthens and builds up marriages.

The long answer? Because I do not wish my future kids to learn about sex from Miley Cyrus or her 2025 equivalent. Sex is not dirty, shameful, disgusting or sinful. Inside marriage, it is one of the most beautiful and pleasurable expressions of love. (and yes, God intends and desires us to have pleasure and He is glorified when pleasures draw us to worship Him! Imagine!! What a wonderful Creator that He's wired us this way!!)

BUT!! Sex outside marriage is another matter altogether. No excuses at all and the results are often disastrous....

And of course, we do not need to reveal intimate details of the act of physical intimacy- there are books for that!

In case you are in the market for suitable materials, check out this and this.... :D  (yeah, the Keeper and I have these books and are looking forward to reading them together but that was probably too much information........)

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